OK, a recent post of Carol's gave me an idea. Time to 12-step our way to a guilt-free memory of our childhoods; Dr. Phil will be available for serious inteventions. So here it is:
As a kid (let's say 17 and under), what's the cruelest thing you ever did to another kid?
and...
What's the cruelest thing that was ever done to you as a kid, by a another kid.
AND...
Which incident came first? Did the latter cause the former?
Should be an interesting psychological experiment.