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Koodari
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Join Date: Jun 2004
 
2008-05-29, 12:20

What Paul said. There are things you can change. You can't change another person, only they themselves can do that. It's stupid, long-term, to take responsibility for something or have expectations that hinge on something you can't actually control.

That's not to say you can't have an effect on other people. Sometimes they choose to follow you. If you are the best you can be at all times, then they'll be that much better for it.
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